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Last week, I started to tell you about Frederique (Fred)  and her small French bistro in the Saint-Germain-des-Prés area of Paris, which is right around the corner from the larger better known establishments such as Les Deux Magotsand Café Flore.



Bistro owner Fred was telling me how she re-invented herself as a chef at 50 after a long first career in television and film where she worked as an agent for French actors.  In fact, both her mother and father were actors.

But there was more to this story and it took me a while put two and two together. And there is a bit of background to this.

As Fred talked, I started thinking about French actors that I knew and one that had become my all time favourite. When I was 23 and first came to France to teach English in a school, I went to the movies a lot to help improve my French. The most powerful film I would see that year was called “Le Vieux Fusil” (The Old Gun).

It takes place in Paris near the end of the Second World War when the Germans are in retreat and have nothing to lose. As the story unfolds, a doctor concerned about the welfare and safety of his beautiful wife (Romi Schneider) and their young daughter sends them away to safety in the country, which sadly has the most tragic results.



It was first time I saw Philippe Noiret act in a film and I was smitten. On a par with Hollywood everyman superstars like Jimmy Stewart, Donald Sutherland, or Tom Hanks, Noiret made more than 140 films soaring to international fame playing the film projectionist in the Italian drama “Cinema Paradiso” which won Best Foreign Film at the Academy awards in 1988.



One Noiret film that I have not yet seen, however, is “Coup de Torchon”– which just so happens to be the name of restaurant that I stumbled upon and is owned by the French woman who was now handing me my bill. Fred, I discovered, is Philippe Noiret’s daughter.


I made a big deal of it all of course. I was so moved by the coincidence of it all that Fred moved into console me.



I mean, there are 66 million people in France, and by chance, I turn a corner, down a quiet street, and walk into a tiny restaurant owned by the only daughter of one of the most famous actors in all of France!

It all made sense now! The name of the film and the name of the restaurant; the meaning of the film’s name (which translates as “Clean Slate) and Fred’s decision to start over her life in a whole new business, a clean slate for her while also continuing to pay homage to her celebrated father.


Case in point: The most wonderful experiences happen when you are not looking for them!

Au Coup De Torchon

6 rue des Ciseaux
75006 Paris

Open for lunch and dinner Tuesday to Saturday.


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  1. Christine on January 20, 2019 at 11:00 am

    I love this story. And I loved seeing the happy faces of people who start over their lives and are loving it so much. It is in the small things, or at least what some would have call ‘small’, that life’s treasures lie as well. But this is not small. I fact it’s HUGE!
    It’s so huge.
    And it was a real oyster of an email when I opened up this story.
    Touched, I thank you – and I look forwards to more.

    • Diana Bishop on January 20, 2019 at 11:30 am

      Thank you so much Christine! It is so great to have you part of my community. I can’t wait to talk to you again! I will be writing the blog about you this week and will send it for your approval. Then we can move forward! Thank you again for your comments!

  2. Rebecca Brown on January 20, 2019 at 12:00 pm

    Oh how wonderful! I have goose bumps! Serendipity!
    Cinema Paradiso was a favourite film of mine, in fact, I walked down the aisle to the theme song at my wedding!

    • Diana Bishop on January 20, 2019 at 7:23 pm

      Really — how cool is that! How romantic!

  3. Luci Rizzo on January 20, 2019 at 12:16 pm

    Great story. Serendity

    • Diana Bishop on January 20, 2019 at 7:22 pm

      Thank you Luci. Always so great to hear from you!

  4. Carol Vandergriff on January 20, 2019 at 6:38 pm

    Hi Diana. What an amazing experience for you. Coincidence? I think not. A great example of what can happen when you least expect it. Thank you for sharing you wonderful story. I so look forward to your emails. Be well. Carol

    • Diana Bishop on January 20, 2019 at 7:21 pm

      Thank you for commenting. It was such a wonderful thing to happen. It bonded Fred and I together as we learned we have so nay
      other things in common. Hope you will keep reading. Diana

  5. Sean Mallen on January 28, 2019 at 11:29 am

    What a great tale, Diana! Noiret was terrific. I’ll definitely eat there next time in Paris and mention your name. Cheers,

    • Diana Bishop on January 28, 2019 at 12:43 pm

      Fabulous Sean! I am so thrilled for you about the success of your book FALLING FOR LONDON!

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